Kilner - who was recently spotted wearing her wedding ring again - has a lot to mull over, with an insider telling Closer: "Even though Annie was trying to hide it at times, wearing her wedding ring out was a big statement. Normally, she worries about everyone judging her, but she was with some of her closest friends and just wanted to have a good time. She has been through so much this year, and just wants to enjoy time with her friends and family. Her boys being happy is her main concern and at the moment they are, as Kyle is still living with them. Things are actually better, but she’s still torn over what to do."