Paxten couldn't help but smirk when he told the story. It was one of his fondest memories, and it came from going to war with his older brother, as they so often did. It was Christmas and the two were battling one-on-one in the basement. On this occasion, thanks to a stroke of luck, younger brother won, and older brother wasn't very happy about it.
"He came up to Christmas dinner and was so mad, he punted the ball and broke the light," Paxten told GOAL last summer. "My dad and mom came down there so aggravated because it was Christmas, you know? It's supposed to be a time of happiness and the entire dinner he was just sulking because he lost to me!
"It was always really intense between us. We would never have a full fist-fight, but we would get into some wrestling matches. And it was the same with all sports, like ping pong – we were so competitive in that. Around the holidays, I always got the better of him in that, so he would freak out. He beat me one time and I threw my paddle and hit him in the face!"
It's one story, but also an insight into the competitiveness that fuelled the Aaronson brothers. That competitiveness, ultimately, made them the players they are now. Growing up in Medford, New Jersey, Brenden and Paxten always had each other to compete with. Iron sharpened iron, and that iron got so sharp that the pair both rose to prominence with the Philadelphia Union.
Brenden came first, of course, emerging as a homegrown star before making his move to Europe. Paxten was hot on his heels, and he came armed with the knowledge gained from watching his older brother go through those growing pains first.
"When my brother first joined the league, he found it really hard to get shots off in the box and get good goalscoring opportunities, so my dad thought it was really important that I work on my ability in and around the box," Paxten explained. "He saw my brother struggling with it and he was like, 'Alright, well clearly he's struggling with it so we need to work on this with you.' I remember that off-season or that summer when he was struggling, all we did was work on finishing. My dad did a lot of research and we would just strictly do finishing for like an hour, just getting confident with it.
"I had that time ahead of him to really get good at it and perfect the technique and perfect the quick shot so I had a little bit of a head start on him. It was kind of like a blessing in disguise. He was struggling but I took his struggle and kind of developed that into my game."