McCabe told The Telegraph: "I'm not sure how outspoken I can be about this without receiving some sort of fine. It has happened to me before, where I've had officials say certain comments to me, indicating for me to behave before I’ve even stepped foot on the pitch.
"It can rub people up the wrong way. You think you’re in a calm moment and you're going into a massive game and something you've prepared all week before, to then be stunned by comments like that from officials.
"It just wouldn't be a nice look if it's the other way around, where players are saying to the referee before the game: 'You're going to make the right call today? You're going to get the bookings?' It just doesn't happen. So I just found it a bit distasteful, really."
Asked if women players are disproportionately punished for dissent compared to their male counterparts, she added: "I think it depends on who you are. If you do show too much emotion, then I think you're made an example of, which is frustrating because we work all season, all week, to perform, perform for the fans, perform for people watching at home, perform for ourselves and the club.
"You're in a high-pressure performance sport, you're going to show emotion at times. All the great athletes in the world in all different sports have shown some level of frustration. But I think depending on who you are, that can be a good thing or it's a bad thing. It's either used against you or it's not."