The former Liverpool player rejected a move to Cardiff earlier in July as he would prefer to remain in the north west and avoid uprooting his family and new-born daughter.
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"I have had long chats with dad, as manager and player and father and son," Tom told The Independent. "He told me he has had his time as a footballer and he can look after himself at Blackpool.
"He wants me to play at the level he believes I can play at. I have proved I can handle myself in the Championship but I don't want to go into the Premier League and struggle.
"I know there will be days when I am criticised and days when I am out of form. It's a rocky road ahead and I want to cope like Ryan Giggs coped."
Cardiff were willing to activate the £8 million release clause in Ince's contract as they prepare for life in the Premier League but failed to persuade the England Under-21 international to move to South Wales.
"For whatever reason when I went to Cardiff, I had a gut feeling that it wasn't right," he explained. "My family is in the north and I'd just become a dad."